because falling in love with you was possibly the best thing i've ever done in my entire life.
langit ang pakiramdam na may isang tao sa mundo na inuuna ka sa lahat, na may isang tao na totoong may pakielam at nagmamalasakit sayo. parang pangarap na nagkatotoo na may isang taong kaligayahan mo at kapakanan muna ang iniisip higit sa lahat. so good to be true talaga na sasabihin mo sa sarili mo na kung panaginip lang ang lahat, matulog ka nalang habang buhay
So there’s this guy, that happens to be my everything. It’s hard to put feelings into words but.. I hope you know how much I love you and think about you everyday. Your words mean everything to me. Your hugs means more when you’re holding me tight, everything feels so right with you. Ever since you made me yours, I’ve been the happiest girl in the world. A smile hasn’t left my face. I don’t tell you this everyday, but you are the most wonderful person I know inside and out and I see that more clearly with each passing day. I love everything about you, about us. You do something to me that no one ever has. You’ve loved me for me, you gave me the most amazing feelings inside and it’s been exciting and just pure amazing. I’ve never met someone that was so good to me. And made me want you to this extent. I miss you, when you’re not around. and I’m the happiest when you are. Before I met you, I never knew what it was like to look at someone and smile for no reason. Before I met you, I was so caught up on negative, because I’ve never had any luck with anyone in the past. I was always let down. But when you walked into my life, I thank you. Because you took time to the figure me out. And I know that’s not easy. I still don’t know what I did to be so lucky to have you in my life. I am so thankful though in this short time that we’ve been together, we have grown so much and I can’t wait to see what the future hold for us. Love was just a word, until you came along and gave it a meaning.
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ARE YOU WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER?
During a seminar, a woman asked,” How do I know if I am with the right person?”
The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, “It depends. Is that your partner?”
In all seriousness, she answered “How did you know?”
"Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it’s weighing on your mind." replied the author.
Here’s the answer:
Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn’t hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn’t have to DO anything. That’s why it’s called “falling” in love.
People in love sometimes say, I was swept of my feet. Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It’s a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.
Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse’s idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, “Am I with the right person?” And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when relationships breakdown.
The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the person you found.
People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.
Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.
I’m not saying that you couldn’t fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you’d feel better. But you’d be in the same situation a few years later.
Because (listen carefully to this)
The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the Person you found.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.
Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.
Love is therefore a “decision”. Not just a feeling.
Remember this always: the universe determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go!